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发表时间:2017-5-4 20:44

拉起青春天线不让暮气升腾



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拉起青春天线不让暮气升腾

舒圣祥

自从不再淹没于五一黄金周,五四青年节越来越像个节日了。每个节日都有每个节日该谈的话题,儿童节谈教育,重阳节谈敬老,妇女节谈礼物,青年节该谈点什么?结果有点出乎意料,传媒这几年大谈特谈的,居然都是青年人的暮气沉沉,或曰未老先衰。

80后感叹“老年危机”,90后感叹“人到中年”,说是联合国有个界定,15到24岁才算青年。可你去看《未来简史》,人类的三大新议题是长生不死、幸福快乐和化身为神。按照现在的科技发展速度,不出意外事故,我们这代人很多都能活到100岁。二三十岁的年纪,人生的太阳才刚刚升起。

我查了下,五四放假半天的适用人群,是14到28周岁。这么规定,大概主要是从生育角度考虑。政策制定者谆谆教导青年,28周岁以上就该去成家生子了。但这肯定不是说超过28就不是青年。

年轻最大的好处是,无论做什么都是对的,什么都不做才是错的;只要你敢于去做,而且是走正路,不搞违法犯罪的勾当,就算错了败了,也有的是机会从头再来。一旦有了家庭有了孩子,从心态上来说,确实会不一样,做事情难免瞻前顾后。

慢慢地,孩子教育问题会成为家庭中心,很多人为此不得不逃离北上深,宁愿选择稳守一份工资,哪怕食之无味,也不敢割舍重来。不敢辞职,不敢放下,不敢离开,不敢去到一个新的城市,甚至不敢在不限购的时候再贷款买套房。

人只有在失去青春的时候,才会倍觉青春的美好;那些正肆意浪费青春的年华,却在暮气沉沉中备受煎熬。古有为赋新词强说愁,今问何日财务能自由。身在其中总是不及置身事外看得清楚,感觉就像是站在仓鼠的跑轮上,只顾着低头往前跑,并不知道跑什么跑,以及跑哪里去。当我们走的路多了,回过头看,才发现那个家伙好傻。

相比学生年代为考试焦虑,初入社会时肯定会有更大的茫然。完全没准备好,屁股上就被人踢了一脚,踉跄着站住了,发现是完全另一套规则。失去的学生时代开始变得越来越美,当下的社会生活开始变得越来越糟。讨厌的老板,复杂的人际,矫情的同事,微薄的工资。调出手机上的计算器,左算右算,以当下的存钱速度,这辈子都买不起房,没时间也没钱谈恋爱,好像都不会爱了——十八岁,请给我一个姑娘。

想的太多而又做的太少,青春暮气因此发酵。抱怨是最坏的情绪,它不仅让人变得讨厌,甚至不由自主地放弃挣扎。其实,情形是会变的,你用今天的计算器算不出来明天。没有人一开始就大富大贵特别成功,也没有人一毕业就必须买房,但也很少人真的格外穷困潦倒,一辈子一事无成。我们总是习惯高估自己短期可以做到的,因此失望焦虑;却又严重低估自己长期可以做到的,早早选择放弃。

对任何一代年轻人来说,所处的时代都既是最好的,也是最坏的。关键是,就像塞缪尔·厄尔曼在著名的《青春》里写的,我们心中要有一根天线,从天上人间接收美好与希望,勇气与力量。一旦天线下降,就会自暴自弃,年方二八也如垂垂老朽;只要天线挺立,捕捉乐观信号,告别尘寰时仍觉年轻。

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隐身或者不在线

回复时间:2017-5-5 10:57
这碗鸡汤喂的好。看来楼主也是鸡汤之人

隐身或者不在线

回复时间:2017-5-5 10:58
买不起房看不起病,你让我冷静,充满活力,在扯蛋吗

隐身或者不在线

回复时间:2017-5-5 10:59
活力早就被生活的琐碎磨得没有了,羡慕楼主

隐身或者不在线

回复时间:2017-5-5 12:42
现在的人更多的都是急功近利,浮躁,不从长计议,不愿踏踏实实地打好基础一步步走向远方,而是急于立即拥有各种享受福利。社会影响是一方面,而人的价值观,人生观与信仰,理想的确立是更重要的因素。

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回复时间:2017-5-6 10:48
我穷开心,别人说我不着急

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